Your Destiny is Shaped by Your Confidence

How many times have you heard people say that to succeed in life you need to have confidence in your own ability? Nothing in life is difficult if you know how to believe in yourself in any situation. Most people have this misconception that confidence is something that is either there or not. It is a natural ability that can’t be inculcated but this is not true. Believing in yourself against all odds is an art.

Everything is controlled and perceived by the mind and if you can train your mind to feel confident, it will always remain like it. The most important thing that defines confidence in an individual is his/her self image. Self esteem plays a crucial role in determining the attitude of an individual towards a situation. It is generally observed that people, who consistently belittle themselves, tend to suffer from lack of confidence.

They are always pessimistic in their view point and are defensive in their approach. This is why it is imperative that people suffering from lack of confidence must take the necessary steps to build up their self esteem. An improved outlook towards life will always bring about opportunities that are rewarding and prosperous. People with high levels of confidence are always challenging themselves and are never bothered by any situation in their lives. The best is that they are not worried about what others are thinking of them and are always focussed on the task in hand. This is what high self esteem can bring you:

• You feel confident about yourself and are willing to try and test new things

• High confidence means high courage, you will never back away from situations that are testing or tough.

• You will become more aware about your personality and perceptions and will always be able to make better decisions both personally and professionally.

• You are always in control of your life; your decisions are not influenced by any external factors or influences.

High self esteem and confidence are virtues that can be enhanced in individuals at any age. The most easiest and effective way to build confidence and self esteem is self love. Nothing beats self love. No matter what your current circumstance is, you need to love yourself for who you are. If you have a good image of yourself in your own eyes, you will always be in control of your actions. You will trust your judgement and will always feel good about your life.

To love yourself, you first need to release all the negative notions or beliefs you may have about your personality. You need to start doing things you are uncomfortable with. You need to take more control of your life. The potential in a person is nothing without self esteem or confidence. Your talent needs the support of your confidence to shine on any platform. People are always bound to react in a defensive mode, when the chips are down, but how they emerge from that given situation depends entirely upon the level of their confidence. So be confident and live your life to the full.

Author Profile: Albert Camus is a well-established blogger, who has written several blogs on how to how to change your life. He believes that the fate of an individual is not dependent on his/her luck or talent but on his/her confidence and how he/she uses it. He also conducts routine workshops to improve confidence & self esteem.

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HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR OF FAILURE

You have not fail until you stop trying. Failure is like fertilizer, it's the stuff success grows on.

In the Psychology of Achievement, Brian Tracy tells of some millionaire who made their fortunes by the age of 35. What's remarkable about them is that all of them have tried an average of Seventeen different things before they found the one that made them successful. This is absolutely notable, they tried and failed sixteen times before they found a way out, that's what it takes, a determination and an attitudes that refuses to quit.

Bob Gass writes: "Only when you look failure in the eye, experience it and move beyond it, will you succeed." You can never succeed if you don't fail.

I've come to believe that all my past failure and frustration were actually laying the foundation for the understandings that have created the new level of living I now enjoy.-Tony Robbins

In Leadership magazines, J. Hamilton says, 'The increase of suicides, alcoholics, and even some forms of nervous breakdown , is evidence that many people are training for success without ever been trained to handle for failure. Yet failure is far more common than success.

We are too quick to judge things as failure when they're just learning experiences. Knowing what doesn't work, moves you closer to what does.

The truth of the matter is that no one will ever succeed without failing.

We need to hear this truth everyday if we are to overcome our fear of failure and move beyond them so as to fulfill our destiny.

Here are 6 golden truth about failure.

1. Failing doesn't mean you are a failure, it just means you have not yet succeeded.
2. Failing doesn't mean you are inferior, it just means you are not perfect.
3. Failing doesn't mean you have accomplished nothing, it just means you have learn something new.
4. Failing doesn't mean you have wasted your time, it just means you have a reason to start over.
5. Failing doesn't mean you should stop trying, it just means you have to put in more effort.
6. Failing doesn't mean God has abandoned you, it just means HE has a better idea.

Understanding these 6 golden truth about failure will make you to look at it in the eye and
move beyond it.

It is only a matter of time before you start seeing result that will amaze you.

Fear doesn’t always have to be something really big and scary that we are terrified of. It can simply be the fear of making a mistake and that’s sometimes harder for us to recognize. This EBOOK will help you to learn powerful new techniques for creating the life you want... and obliterate anything that stands in your way! Face the fear and be set free from the power of failure forever

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